Last year I said yes to me:
Yes, to investing in myself with bLU Talks speaker training programs – one has author training too.
Yes, to being more productive and procrastinating less.
Yes, to taking more bold and courageous action – in spite of what others may think.
Yes, to being more of my true authentic self.
Yes, to sticking up for myself
Yes, to believing in myself more.
Yes, to being way out of my comfort zone.
Yes, to new opportunities.
Yes, to doing things I had never tried before.
And the things I’ve achieved as a result, have been phenomenal; way beyond my wildest dreams and imagination.
So now I want to share with you those ultra big achievements I’ve made, that created a global impact in 2023.
Biggest achievement in 2023 – I was on James Miller Lifeology Radio show with over 3 million listeners per episode – That’s 3 million people hearing about my life as an asexual person!
I didn’t pay to be on James’s show, I won the opportunity to pitch to him in front of a live virtual audience at one of bLU Talks Expert’s Bootcamps, and I took advantage of that opportunity and got on his show after going through an official longer-than-expected application process. It was well worth all of the time and effort I spent doing that.
The Life of an Asexual Person | Sandra Bellamy By James Miller Lifeology Interview ORIGINAL VERSION watch here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=hfNPbWNu-bzW51ahc
Listen to it on Apple Podcasts here:
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/james-miller-lifeology-radio/id1190946242?i=1000627920736
James Miller, is the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com
(See my show page on James’s site here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/)
This was broadcast on/across:
National Radio Stations
- 18 AM/FM terrestrial radio stations: Tuesday at 1:30 pm, Friday at 9:30 am, and Saturday at 12:30 pm
- Washington, DC: FM – 96.7
- Tampa, FL: AM – 1630, FM – 92.1
- Las Vegas, NV: AM – 1520, FM – 99.5
- Macon, GA: AM – 810, FM – 87.9
- Lancaster, PA: AM – 1640, FM – 102.1
- Boulder, CO: FM – 96.3
- Milwaukee, WI: FM – 90.3
- Pittsburgh, PA: FM – 94.7
- Long Beach, CA: FM – 101.5
- New Port Richey, FL: FM – 88.3
- The Villages, FL: FM – 97.7
- Colorado Springs, CO: FM – 87.9
- Jacksonville, FL: FM – 90.3
- Rocky Hill, NC: FM – 89.5
Streaming Radio
- RadioPublic
- PodParadise.com
- Player.FM
- Overcast FM
- Radio Vybe
- AM/FM247
- Amazon Alexa/Echo
Archived on Podcasting Platforms
- iTunes
- Spotify
- Pandora
- iHeart Radio
- Google Play
- Blubrry
- TuneIn
- Spreaker
- Pocket Casts
- Podbean
- Mixcloud
- Deezer
- Audible
- JioSaavn
- Podcast Index
- Gaana
- Amazon Music
- on all other podcasting platforms
Digitally (Under AMFM247 Channel)
- Roku
- WorldTV
- Dish TV
- Youtube
- Google TV
- Other Network Stations Inclusion
Check it out on my own channel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=KjA4tdA-wNKxvpuH and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.
You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:
The Life And Perspectives Of An Asexual
Listen to it on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here https://youtu.be/5XMtAwHT4aI?si=8JRkVr0XJ4jPOfSL
I was so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that. She’s had over a million downloads of her show episodes, so it’s in the top % of listened to podcasts – which is great coverage for asexuality.
Shanna Vavra is a very attentive and inclusive interviewer, interviewing me about The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751
It’s also on Shanna’s own Sense of Soul Podcast YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/s1X6oN-q2J4?si=AEe1Vr2PRfFv6GkR
I spoke about asexuality and self-reinvention at Oxford University for bLU Talks
ASEXUAL SANDRA BELLAMY QUIRKY BOOKS BESTSELLING AUTHOR AND PUBLISHER SPEAKS AT OXFORD UNIVERSITY FOR BLU TALKS – BEHIND THE SCENES HIGHLIGHTS
Watch the playlist of clips from my talk in the video below – or click this link https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6sdIToxIi4eaCyEfXpEj-s0dBqcJ4aaA&si=ojSONXiI7sqYBRMg
My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey:
From being a shy, lonely, deeply unhappy, introverted girl,
Who was a suicidal depressed mess,
With no purpose…
Averse to touch by strangers…
With huge social anxiety,
And I could only see people on a one-to-one basis…
To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –
Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)
Being all over social media…
….organising and hosting asexual meetups…
Being able to hug strangers…
Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.
Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?
.. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?
#1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy
My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…
Which became a number 1 international bestseller. See screenshots below:
See my name, Sandra Bellamy, in the list below of co-authors:
So now I can say I’m a #1 International Best Selling Author. Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be by buying this book here https://amzn.to/4aO9OWk
Best-Selling Asexual Perspectives Book – Best-Selling Publisher Quirky Books – Speciality Asexuality
Before that, on 08/08/2023, I also became a bestselling author with Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book. And because I publish my own books under my own book publishing imprint of Quirky Books, I became a bestselling publisher too – double WOW! Get your copy here https://amzn.to/48nOe9w
And I wrote Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life – book, which I am currently proofreading again along with my best friend, who fortunately for me, works in editorial as a job, so he is highly skilled and knowledgable to help me. Although with a diary-style book, it’s meant to have minimal editing done to it, be a casual conversational tone and use colloquial language, so I have to be careful not to overdo the editing, and to keep it very conversational, but I still want to make some final corrections.
This book is very different to any other book I’ve written before as it’s a diary-style book of my inner most thoughts, feelings and emotions, during a difficult hyper-romantic time and all the life lessons I learnt along the way. It’s written very informally. It’s like a behind-the-scenes of my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – which is also a behind-the-scenes of my life, where I share my own asexual life journey, in order to help you in yours. Talking about things such as dating, relationships, self-love and self-care – which this book also focuses on helping you with. So it’s like an extension of my channel content to help you in your own asexual life – more details on this to follow and it will be at a low launch price when it’s first released, so keep your eyes on my next blog posts for updates about that, so you don’t miss out.
I was also interviewed by bLU Talks about asexuality on an episode of bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show which was recorded live – and co-hosted that show once too.
Watch Asexuality Interview with Sandra Bellamy ON Blu Talks Amplify your message show, by watching the video below or click this link https://youtu.be/KCdM9jLUbhU?si=I7q_ARrb8ija1U5v
If you want to see the episode I co-hosted, you can see it here https://www.youtube.com/live/yI-PKfV0Rw8?si=GYpmgczR6MI_G_QL
And I was the first keynote speaker at the Be And Become Summit on 14th Of December.
Here is my full talk in case you missed it:
And here is the full playlist with some of the highlights of that talk:
on 31st of December 2023, I was notified that I’ve been recognised among the 2023 – Iconic 100 Impact Ignitors Worldwide ICONS for making a difference. (Thanks to all you who voted for me into this 100 list of icons.)
Join me in celebrating positive change asexualiseofficial with International Icon Inc. ( @YouAreTheIconOrg ) and the Iconic Speakers Network ( @IconicSpeakersNetwork), led by the founder Antoinette Logan ( @AskMsLogan ).
See the full list of IMPACT IGNITORS here: https://bit.ly/Iconic100ImpactIgnitorOf2023List (I’m included in the special mentions – People who have made special contributions to positive change.)
In the video below, I show you my name as a special mention on this list.
And this list has just been featured in The Chicago Journal, here https://thechicagojournal.com/iconic-100-impact-igniters-of-2023-cheers-to-global-changemakers/
And last year I was interviewed by Shilpi Gupta Shah, PR & Digital Marketing Associate at Fuzia | Fuzia Talent, and she gave me a mention in one of her recent new year 2024 LinkedIn posts, as one of the remarkable women leaders she interviewed, which felt fabulous.
And the article from that interview has now just gone live on Humans Of Fuzia website, here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/ notice that Fuzia have a community of over 5 Million women worldwide – so my global impact continues in 2024.
So please, do yourself a huge favour, show up for you, repeatedly and consistently, and never, ever, give up on your dreams – keep taking action to achieve each one of those. Your future self will thank you for it.
So make sure – 2024, is the year you say, “I do” to you:
With much love 
As always, stay positive.
Sandra xx
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