Whatever happens in life, stay strong, and if you fall, get back up again.
Always be true to you, stay strong and value your own worth. Leave behind those who base their lives on untruths, you will feel better for it in the long term.
Happy Easter Monday – what are you up to for it?
I am going to be continuing work on my first online training course, it’s called “Ignite Your Happy, How To Be Happy, Live Happy, and Feel Happy Forever”. There are a lot of videos to create, but I am enjoying the process and it will be the first course on my all new Quirky Academy when it’s launched.
Quirky Academy is a heart-centred online training centre for entrepreneurs, start-ups and creatives, who want to embrace their quirky, make their difference in the world, live their purpose, and leave a lasting legacy!!
This video is an ideal one to watch when you are made redundant, because it takes courage to start your life over, and when you are made redundant (laid off), you have no choice but to do that, or you can end up being depressed and wasting your life away. Don’t do that! See redundancy as an opportunity to take stock of your life and to start over with your focus being on your goals, ambitions, and dreams! And don’t doubt yourself and your abilities, you are capable of far more than you will ever know!
If you need help with breaking through the barriers of redundancy – I wrote a book, full of useful help, advice and guidance, and with CV and Cover Letter templates that will get you interviews if applied correctly! http://amzn.to/2o0XmMA
It’s so important while you are redundant to keep your spirits high and keep believing in you! This is one of my favourite motivational videos about believing in yourself. When it starts off, it gets you to imagine what life would be like if you were in a coma, forgot who you were, and truly believed you are what you dream of becoming! This is such a powerful technique, call it fake it until you make it – but you have to believe it! Call it law of attraction, but you have to believe it! Call it affirmations, but you have to believe them! Call it believe in yourself – and you got it!
If you want to work on your self-belief – my Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy book can help you with this because it takes a holistic view of redundancy, that is all about getting back to the roots of who you are and what you were born to do, before all the noise of life got in the way!! http://amzn.to/2o0XmMA
When you have been through a lot in your life, it is easy to doubt yourself, to feel weak and helpless. Over time, you can learn to trust yourself, to trust your gut instincts, and you can learn to be invincible. The whole process requires baby steps. Make a decision, stick to it, reflect on how it worked out, then make another decision, then another and another!
Believe it or not, I only realised recently the true power of decision making in creating the invincible version of myself! And you can use it too, to make yourself more invincible! If you have been in bad or unhealthy relationships where your opinion was belittled, or you were made to feel small and under threat if you had a decision to make and you may make the wrong one if you go with what you think, then it makes decision making extremely difficult. I have been in those situations. One major influence in my life use to say things like, “I’m just here to pick up the pieces”, “If you say so, do whatever, because I know you will anyway”, often using a sarcastic tone of voice – implying that every decision I make is going to be the wrong one, making me feel invalid, and that making any decision for myself is in some way is going against them and likely going to fail because they know it will. This puts you in a super scary position, because it makes you feel like you are not supported and in a constant state of threat. It undermines your confidence and instigates anxiety and uncertainty, and to put this right after so many years is tough, but I know I need to keep pushing through my fears if I want to be truly invincible and to move forward with my life! Right now I am working on this, it’s a work in progress. I am trusting my instincts far more, acting more on my gut feelings and intuition, and making more decisions without trying to second guess myself all the time.
So know that you can change your life, it takes a lot of will power, determination, and it is a long journey – but will be worth it. You have to learn to let go of being perfect and accept that either mistakes can be made, or you will learn a ton of life lessons, either way, you will keep getting stronger and everything will work out and be okay and in that way – you will become invincible!
Stay positive, Sandra xx