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“Only In Darkness Can You See The Stars”

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Sometimes it takes darkness to come into our life, to make us see what truly matters the most and to get clarity about out life.

Darkness sharpens the senses. It sometimes provides what you think is unnecessary turmoil, in order to make things more clear for your long term vision of success.

Without darkness, there can be no light.

What stars are you seeing right now? And what are they reflecting back at you and what words are they speaking to you?

Comment below!

Sandra xx

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Whatever happens, keep moving forward!

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Sometimes in life you come to a stand still and your body just wants a rest, your brain wants a rest, and you need a rest, by that I mean a break! So in order to keep moving forward in your life, let it have what it wants and go and do something, even if it is just one thing, to make you feel good, happy, calm, relaxed, and on top of the world.

See most people think moving forward means working or doing the norm, but that isn’t always the case. Moving forward is recognising that you need help, you body needs help and your mind needs help, it may just feel burned out, through anxiety, work, stress, or doing the same predicable things over and over again. So get up, get dressed, and for once in your life go and do something just for you, to make you feel alive again! To make you feel good, happy, relaxed, and that life is definitely worth living!

Until next time, stay positive

Sandra xx

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How To Overcome Your Fears To Live Your Dreams: 16 Practical Ways For Overcoming Your Fears

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This quote by motivational speaker Les Brown says it all. The reason we are not living our dreams, is because we are living our fears. Fears hold us back from accomplishing our dreams, so we must reduce our fears, so that we can live more of our dreams. We reduce our fears by:

  1. Facing them head on and doing the thing we fear the most.
  2. Finding a workaround solution.
  3. Learning new competencies and skills to be more confident that we can do whatever we put our mind to.
  4. Believing in our ability to figure things out even if we don’t know how right now.
  5. Believing everything happens for a reason, even if the reason is not apparent at the time.
  6. Setting goals and taking action on them, then monitoring our results and improving upon them.
  7. Acknowledging there will be difficulties and difficult times in your life and that is okay.
  8. See obstacles as challenges you will gladly overcome.
  9. Loving yourself no matter what happens.
  10. Focusing on feeling grateful and thankful for everything you have right now in your life.
  11. Reflecting on the past, to learn from it but not dwell on it and not wanting it to change but believing you did the best you could do at the time.
  12. Living for now, in the moment, as you never know when your last breath will be
  13. Planning for the future in a practical way by sitting down and writing out a one year, two year, and/or five year plan, and monthly plan, daily plan, with solutions on how to make those plans come to fruition and working those plans every day by taking action on them.
  14. Giving up things which make you feel bad, sad, uneasy, or unhappy.
  15. Constantly taking action to achieve goals, however big or small, because that builds momentum and drive to move forward in your life and puts those fears and worries out of your mind.
  16. Schedule in time for fun and self-dating and being at one with your soul, and make it happen.

I hope that helps you? Please let know what think and if you have any more you would like to add?

Until next time, stay positive

Sandra xx

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You are the miracle!

So many people spend their whole life looking for external gratification, looking for things to happen to them to make their life better, looking for that miracle, all the while not realising, that they are the miracle and they are the only one who has the power to change their life!

This video was filmed live on my channel

Until next time, stay positive friend

Sandra xx

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People are forever looking around them, searching for that one day in which a miracle will happen, not ever realising that they are a miracle, they are living and breathing in this life, when thousands of others have lost their’s.

Every day is your own for the taking, make it what you will, but please do my a huge favour and look in the mirror, and see that the miracle you have been waiting for is looking back at you, they always have been and always will be.

You are the miracle my friend, see it, feel it, believe it, live it, and love it, and move it into action to make your wildest dreams come true! And remember, I love you, just for being you xx

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Even though I am currently doing life hacks videos on this channel now, the motivational/inspirational poems I did previously on this channel will still teach you life hacks, just in a different way! This poem was the last poem I did on my channel to date and is about not holding yourself back, which is what I think a lot of us do, all the while not intentionally meaning to.

I still have some anxiety but going to be speaking at the UK Asexuality Conference soon, on the 8th of July, in London – Don’t hold yourself back!

What do you think? I love to read you, so please comment below!

As always, stay positive and live your purpose!

Sandra xx