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How To Fix Doubts! 3 Enemies to Our Personal Growth!

I love this video from the personal and professional development coach Brendon Burchard!

My takeaways from this video, in order to fix doubts, you must:

  • Have faith
  • Trust in your abilities
  • Trust that you will figure it out
  • Trust that you can build it
  • Trust that you can get some help
  • Have courage
  • Face your fears and doubts head on and go for it inspire of them
  • Take lots of action
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Redundancy – Destiny Wants Something Different For Me! Inspirational Poem By Sandra Bellamy!

Redundancy – Destiny Wants Something Different For Me! Inspirational Poem By Sandra Bellamy!

Redundancy has come around once again, so what is it, I am meant to be doing then?

Destiny wants something different for me. I even want something different for me, and in fact I see, what I am really meant to be, I see my purpose, but do I see it fully?

No wish or want is going to get me where I need to be, it’s about taking action, continuously.

I wish I did not need money to pay the bills, that I had enough to live on and I could write away, but this is not my current situation, not tomorrow, and not today!

I cry at losing a job I love, I have to work my consultation period, which is agonising enough, then I have to search for something I don’t want to do, and lose seeing colleagues I like, too.

But destiny wants something different for me, something better, something amazing, that now, is not a reality. It wants my dream, it wants to push me to my limits like a laser beam. It wants to tell me to stop doing what I do, that you are meant for more, you know you want to. You want to be famous, you want to be a leader, you want to be a speaker, you want to be a writer. You want to be you. Nothing else will do. But if you stay as you are, you may not go as far, as you would, if you could, if you were forced, you should – do what you are meant to do, and let the whole world know it too.

Destiny has something better for me, even though I currently feel in agony.

Destiny knows what it wants me to do, now be bold, be brave, you have to.

Destiny wants something better for me and so do I, so on a wing and a prayer, I will fly high. I will push myself to reach the sky.

Destiny wants something better for me and so do I. So stop the cry. Because destiny wants something better for me and a better destiny, it will be!!

People who believe they can change the world – Are the ones who do!!!

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I believe you have the power to change your life, those of others, and the world around you!!!

I recently wrote a quote on Facebook:

“You don’t need to put a chip in your brain to have super powers, all of the super powers are already within you, they just need unlocking” – Quote by Sandra Bellamy

A lot of people don’t realise that all of the will power, intuition, determination and resources to succeed are already within you. You have to have a can-do, nothing will stop you attitude. When everyone else is saying, ‘can’t’, you need to ask ‘how?’ and start to work it out. That is why the journey is more important than the destination, because of all the life lessons, skills and experience you pick up along the way, on the road to your dreams!!

If you could change the world, what would you do??

Sandra xx

COURAGE – Motivational/Inspirational Poem By Sandra Bellamy

Courage from fear.

Courage

Persistence, Patience and Inner Power!

Writing is the love of my life.

I have to confess, writing itself, brings me inner peace, such happiness, joy, and contentment, that I do not experience from anything else I regularly do. Nothing compares to the feeling. If only writing books was that simple. But as a self- published Author of non-fiction, loads of other things have to be factored into the equation besides the writing itself:

  • Research.
  • Interviewing – for this Asexual Perspectives book.
  • Asking your intervieews more questions in view of their responses. This can mean a lot of back and forth emailing.
  • Typing your handwritten book up, and your interviewee answers, or using copy and paste and re-formatting the text to fit your own font and type size.
  • Editing your intervieews grammar, spelling and punctuation, enough so that it is legible, but still kept authentic and in their own voice.
  • Editing your own writing for the book multiple times, including spelling, grammar, and punctuation.
  • Proofreading, and again, and again, and again – and even more than that.
  • Getting someone else to proof read it for you.
  • Incorporating their interviews into the book so they blend in with your own part and emphasise what you are saying in their own, natural way.
  • Writing the back matter and front matter.
  • Creating a TOC.
  • Getting a list of further resources together – where appropriate.
  • Fomatting the book correction.
  • Typsetting the book correctly.
  • Correct pagination.
  • Book cover design for Kindle and Createspace – with a blurb!
  • Hiring the right designers, proofreaders and editors, if you can’t do that yourself.
  • Purchasing ISBNs, if you want to use your own!!

And anything else I may have forgotten to mention.

So you can see that a love and passion for writing, has to be an almost obsession, to be able to give you the patience, determination and persistence, to pull off publishing your own book! You need to use your inner power to believe you will get it done, no matter what! Don’t over think it, just do it!

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