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How To Never Give Up On YOUR Dreams

SOS can stand for Save Our Souls – and is a cry for help! SOS can also mean Shiny Object Syndrome.

Ironically, if you suffer from Shiny Object Syndrome, then you’ll probably need to shout Save Ours Souls – or in the least “Save My Own Soul”, at some point.

Shiny Object Syndrome is when you keep going from one thing to the next because it seems like the better opportunity.

If you imagine you find a number of jewels in the dessert and each jewel you find appears bigger and more valuable than the previous one, and so you go after each one of those hoping it will lead you to be rich and even richer and richer, but you forget you are in a dessert and really need more water, but the jewels could buy all the water you need, and all the food you need, and the house you need… but these jewels take you further and further away from civilisation, until eventually you realise you have ended up in a drought with only your jewels for comfort as you neglected your own basic needs, in trying to find the next best thing. In being drawn to what is glowing and sparkling, and what promises to get you the results you need, while being blinded constantly to what you really need and what your heart’s desire truly wants and needs. That’s Shiny Object Syndrome.

In my entrepreneurial journey, I came to realise that much of the time we are going after other’s dreams and not our own. Because they convince us that their product or service is better than anyone else’s, and often our own inner voice gets drown out as we feel we will be missing out (FOMO) and that there is a huge magic secret formula that would allow us to get rich super quickly. Also they make you feel like you will fail if you don’t do what they say, and no one wants to be responsible for their own failure usually, as we are had wired not to want to take risks in case we get things wrong.

But, it’s better to follow your own life path and dreams, warts and all, even if you make mistakes, rather than go after someone else’s shiny object, so that you can shine your own light in the world, and leave your own lasting legacy, rather than build other people’s, so you can leave this world knowing you did your best for yourself and you own dreams, with no regrets.

Watch this 15 second video that explains how to never give on your dreams and don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for more videos about making money by living your dreams, not other people’s.

And if you have anxiety, the video below is my number #1 Top Tip to achieving your dreams in spite of anxiety. This Sandra Bellamy channel is dedicated to helping you achieve your dreams, so please subscribe and hit the bell icon to that channel too.

As always, stay positive.

Sandra xx

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Practising Gratitude! Gives You The Right Attitude!

Practising Gratitude gives you an amazing attitude towards life; the people, and the things in it! It helps you to develop yourself, grow yourself, and come from a place of self-love, self-worth, and positivity.

If you can practise gratitude daily, it can switch your mind from negativity, to positivity, and help you to feel more motivated, more courageous, and more alive.

Name 5 things you are grateful for every day, every morning, to yourself, whenever you wake up. And name those things below in the comments now!!! Let’s spread the love and positivity xx

When was the last time you practised gratitude and what did you say?

As always, stay positive

Sandra xx

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LISTEN EVERY DAY! “I AM” affirmations for Success

I listen to these affirmations almost every day I wake up, and sometimes several times a day. They help me to calm down when feeling anxious, to relax more, and to feel positive for the day ahead.

What affirmation videos do you listen to? Please list them in the comments below!

As always, stay positive, and keeping being you.

Sandra xx

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Single Quotes To Celebrate Being Single |Quotes About Being Single | Positive and Empowering Quotes About Being Single – Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day!

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Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day. Don’t forget to use #ICBSD in your Tweets and posts to show how happy you are being single and how you are celebrating it.

Today is about celebrating self-love and the freedom you have as a beautiful solo artist of life!

Watch the above video, with positive quotes about being single and being happy to be single, to inspire you to celebrate this joyous ‘Celebrate Being Single Day’ today.

As I told you in a previous post, today I am celebrating being single and self-love with a friend. We are going to the aquarium in a place called Plymouth in the UK and then for a meal in Nandos – which is a Portuguese style chicken restaurant chain! Although their first restaurant was in South Africa.

Here is a self-love video I created, don’t forget to subscribe for more inspiring quote videos!

Have a blessed day.

Lots of self-love and love from me.

Sandra xx

 

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Writing, Fibromyalgia, and Entrepreneurship | How My Life Changed Instantly! By Author Sandra Bellamy

This video is the story of how my life changed in an instant and I never looked back!

Happy watching and let me know your thoughts!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

P.S. Yes, my Fibro book will finally be published this year! Exciting times xx

 

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10 Morning Habits To Ignite Your Day!

If you want advice on how to start your morning to ignite your day – here are 10 habits you can follow!

Hope this helps you?

As always, stay positive

Sandra xx