Dreams ARE Real interview
Redundancy Inspiration

How I Became The Asexual Entrepreneur – Dreams ARE Real Podcast Reveals ALL!

Most people equate success to how much money they’re making, but REAL success is not about how much money you make.

You’re successful when you can trust yourself, be yourself, and be happy with what you’re doing.

Right now, I don’t make a ton of money, as you will hear from my interview with Dan from the Dreams ARE real podcast, but as far as I’m concerned, I’m currently living my dreams, because:

I write books that change lives – Especially about asexuality, which is a huge passion of mine.

I help asexuals, through my https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel and asexual blog at www.asexualise.com and various Facebook groups and pages.

I’m financially free. As I finally got my disabilities officially recognised and my incomings are now more than my outgoings. Phew!

Asexuality is a sexual orientation largely based on a lack of sexual attraction, and for people like me, who identify as asexual, it can be hard to make our own voice heard.

Especially as sexual stereotypes and societal conditioning tell everyone that it’s natural to like, want, and need sex, and that anyone who says otherwise must be lying or have something wrong with them.

People tend to discard what they don’t understand.

They tend to disregard what is considered as “not” normal.

And they tend to feel extremely uncomfortable when something doesn’t fit in with their ideology.

But I encourage you to always stand proud of who you are, and to stop listening to what other people say, that drowns out the sound of your own voice. 😍

Asexuals have as much right to speak out about how they think and feel, including if they don’t like, want, or need sex, and have the right to be taken seriously. 😍

Just because asexuality is a minority sexuality, it doesn’t mean it’s wrong and not normal.

It’s normal for SOME people to not like, want, need, or get the urge for, partnered sexual intercourse, ever. 😍

Don’t let anyone blind you into believing we are all the same – because we are not.

There ARE people who never want sex, and that’s okay. 😍

The only reason most people don’t speak out, is because other’s ridicule them and tell you, you can’t be who you are born to be.

I am here to show you, you can.

That your life is your own and that speaking up, in your own voice, is essential to live your own life dreams and no one else’s. Regardless of your sexuality.

That’s why I’m thrilled to be able to give a voice to the voiceless, and share my own asexual life journey of how I became known as The Asexual Entrepreneur and explain what it feels like to be asexual in this highly sexualised world, and how to live your asexual dreams and be your true authentic self, no matter what, on the Dreams ARE Real podcast.

Don’t miss this ACE episode by listening through either of the links below, now, and tell me what you think…

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-182-becoming-an-asexual-entrepreneur-with/id1480067188?i=1000558237426

Redundancy Inspiration

How To Be Successful Inspirational Quote And Why You Must Live Your Dreams!

positive thinking and action quote

I love this how to be successful inspirational quote: “Your positive action, combined with positive thinking, results in success.”

Let’s face it, no one ever became successful from thinking negatively. And the more you think positively, the more you will take action and the more action you take, the more lessons you will learn on the path to success and happiness.

Sometimes it can feel like an uphill struggle, sometimes it can feel like you are beating your head against a brick wall, but the only thing you can do is to keep going, keep taking action, and keep following your intuition. Keep believing in yourself, and at least you know you gave it a chance and you are living and breathing your own dreams. Because when you are on your death bed, think of all those lost dreams, on all of those chances and risks you did not take because you were too scared, and now the only thing that scares you, is not living how you were meant to live because of narrow and shallow minds that made your own small. You are the boss of your own life and your are the ruler of your own kingdom, now go and be you and live the life of your dreams!

Until next time, stay positive and live the life of your dreams.

Sandra xx

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Who wants to succeed?

Hi Everyone

Redundancy can get you down and sometimes you may feel like a failure, well you are not!

If failure is that bad, then why do people live through it and often become stronger?

Because in order to succeed, you need to understand and appreciate what failure is and how you can use it to your advantage to gain success in your life.

Heres how:

What Can Thomas Edison Teach Us About Success (through Failure).

Until next time

Stay positive

Sandra Bellamy

 

 

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What Does Success Mean To You?

Hi Everyone

Success comes in all forms, shapes and sizes.

In order to be successful, you have to first work out:

  • What success means to you?
  • What success will do for you?
  • What you envisage success to look like?

Only when you are able to answer these 3 questions, will you be able to map out your own path to success.

To you, success could mean:

  • Owning your own home
  • Being able to put food on the table
  • Running your own business
  • Writing your life story
  • Having a family of your own
  • Having a good network of friends for support
  • Working in your dream job
  • Fulfilling your ambitions
  • Getting up in the morning pain-free
  • Being able to create things

Or it could be a combination of all, or some, of the above.

Whilst you are redundant, it is a great time to discover what success means to you, because if you don’t, you will never feel satisfied but feel like there is something missing from your life or that you are a failure.

Knowing what success means to you, is the first step on your path to achieving it.

Don’t waste any more time feeling like a failure but instead put your time and energy into writing a list of what success means to you and then prioritise them in the order of most importance and set goals to achieve each and every one of them. As you do this, you will be growing into your own success and moving along the path to lead a more fulfilling existence and a happier you.

So what are you waiting for?

Until next time, stay positive.

Sandra Bellamy

 

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How to keep winning – The road to success

Hi Everyone

It’s easy to think that out of nowhere people seem to have overnight success but usually this simply isn’t true. It takes a lot of hard work, determination and persistence to get where you want to be in life and I can tell you that it is worth it.

If you click on the blog link below, it explains the steps you must take on the road to success.

How to keep winning.

Until next time, stay positive.

Sandra Bellamy