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REDUNDANCY Dream Finally Comes True!! ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES Quirky Books Paperback Published!

When I was made redundant for the second time in my life, in 2009, it is then that I discovered 100% that I was born to write. I started my www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com writing blog over 6 years ago and I knew back then, that I wanted to have my own publishing company called Quirky Books, and this year, that dream, finally came true. Yes, I am a registered publisher, and this Asexual Perspectives book is the first of my books going into print ( 3rd Kindle book). It was a proud moment to finally hold my printed book in my hands and even a more proud moment, that my number one fan of my Asexualise work and brand, did an unboxing video and was so excited to receive a copy of my work!! To hear him say the words, “Author Sandra Bellamy”, felt incredible. There is no better feeling in the world than the power to change lives, through the written word. As a registered publisher I have to by law, send a paperback copy to the British Library for free. It then goes down as part of English heritage, so will be there for generations to come, long after I am gone, for people to use in their research and to further their. Here is the link to get the book in a Kindle veraion http://amzn.to/2szjNJQ Or UK site is http://amzn.to/2u6vps7

In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?

Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.

Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!

If you identify as asexual do you –

Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Feel alone?
Misunderstood?
Misplaced?
Broken?
Left out?
Not recognised?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?

Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.

In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!

In this book you will:

•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.

•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.

•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!

•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.

•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.

•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.

•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.

•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.

•Uncover the positives about being asexual.

•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.

I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.

If you have resonated with any of these points and you want to know more, please invest in this book and scroll up and add to cart!

Heteroromantic, Author Sandra Bellamy is the founder of http://www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.

The print version of my 560 page Asexual Perspectives book is now available to buy on Amazon here http://amzn.to/2u1wp0O. Or UK site http://amzn.to/2tw739A

To celebrate this book going into print, our diversity across the spectrum, and our individuality within it, I founded Asexual Perspectives Awareness Month, 1st-31st of July 2017, #APAM. Like www.facebook.com/acexualise to join in the celebration fun and subscribe on www.youtube.com/c/asexualisemyasexuallife to see a different video every day, for 31 days of #APAM, related to a topic from the book that matters to you and join in the conversation!!

 So grab your copy now and get educated on this often unheard of, and deeply misunderstood sexual orientation, that is asexuality, the (A)absence of sexual attraction!

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Confessions of an Asexual Cougar Businesswoman!

Confessions of an asexual businesswoman cougar. Quirky Books writer Sandra Bellamy confesses all to the Mirror UK National Press with desires of a teenage romance. Special Edition Video. Read the article here and share it http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/confessions-cougar-repulsed-sex-dreams-9456045

What are you dreaming of?

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What are you dreaming of? What’s holding you back from achieving those dreams and all you have ever wanted to achieve in your life? 

We all have worries and fears, but if we let them take hold of us and firmly route themselves in our soul, how can we ever be free to live the life we want?

It’s hard when we have our past haunting us; but we have to believe that light will prevail. We have to make an effort to push through our barriers and take calculated risks, to secure the awesome life and future of our dreams.

I have dreamt of becoming a published author for years; and now I am about to realise that dream. My Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy book is complete. I now have to re-check all hyperlinks work; before uploading to Amazon for Kindle, and there are a ton of them to check.

Because I have been working on this book for at least two and a half years; I am a bit scared, as well as ecstatically happy. It’s scary because nothing’s perfect and I am going to be wide open to a ton of criticism. It’s also a bit like losing an old friend or letting a child fly the nest. This book has seen my through some incredibly tough and hard times, it’s been my friend, confidant and form of therapy, and now I have to let it go to spread its wings and fly. I am going to miss spending time with my friend and building the relationship with him – I just called my book a him. It could equally be a she. It’s a unisex book. It’s like losing a female friend or male companion, it’s a bit sad. But it’s equally the best thing that’s ever happened to me in my life, because I will have achieved my ultimate dream to date; and be confident going forward to write and publish more quirky books. My life is going to change from this point onwards in the most incredible way, and I am going to help a ton of people in the process. I will be living my dreams and be proof that you can live yours too.

Launch of quirky-books.co.uk and Jobseekerpreneur

New Quirky Books UK  website

New Quirky Books UK website

I have finally finished creating and just launched www.quirky-books.co.uk. This is a fun and funky site with a quirky theme! I had a lot of fun creating this site and now I still have to finish packing half of my case for getting up to go to London in less than 3.5 hours. Arrrgghh! I still have clothes to iron – It’s gone 3.30am and I have to get up at 6am, but first I need to finish this launch, then pack! No rest for the good! Yesterday, I launched www.quirky-books.com, and I also launched www.jobseekerpreneur.com on the 1st of May – 3 sites in 3 days – That is good going!!!  3 More left to do and finish – I have made a start on them!! Then I will be focusing on my Break through the barriers of redundancy book, publishing it and helping a ton of people get back in to work – That’s my aim. I am going to the National achievers Congress on Bank Holiday Monday 4th May, in London, that’s why I am going to London this morning. Nick Vijucic (No Arm, No Legs. NO LIMITS) will be the star of the inspirational/entrepreneurial seminar. Registration starts from 7.15am and it’s not due to finish until 8pm – It’s often later. It’s the first Bank Holiday I have had off from my day job in retail, I had to get permission to go from my boss. I wouldn’t want to miss Nick live on stage. Nick Vujicic LIVE in London

Nicholas James “Nick” Vujicic is an Australian Christian evangelist and motivational speaker born with tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterised by the absence of all four limbs. Wikipedia
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Quirky-Books.com launch – Quirkylicious books that will keep you wanting more!

Ooh! HAPPPPYYY DAAYYYSSS!!  I created and just launched my quirky-books.com website to advertise my Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy Book – Coming soon to Amazon. Oh! And I now own www.quirkyacademy.co.uk besides www.quirkyacademy.com – That’s 19 domains that I own in total – Get your quirky on!

This is from my new site, that is designed in a page of a book, enjoy and please tell me what you think.

Quirky Books

Quirkylicious books that will keep you wanting more!

BREAK THROUGH THE BARRIERS OF REDUNDANCY TO GET BACK INTO WORK: – AN A-Z ‘HOW TO’ GUIDE – coming soon to Amazon and Quirky Books; is Sandra Bellamy’s debut A-Z, ‘How to’ guide.

Break through the barriers of redundancy book

Not only is this book unique in that it takes a holistic view of redundancy to you get back into work, this book is groundbreaking because it mixes two genres that are not usually put together; an A-Z guide, with a ‘How to’ book. This is how it is a quirky book, and you can expect more of the same from Sandra Bellamy and Quirky Books, in the future.

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