Sometimes someone may come into your life, who is far from perfect, but you see the hidden gems in them. You see the best in them, their warm heart, their beautiful face, their young words of wisdom encased in an old soul. You think this is it! This is the awesome person that I may have been waiting for all my life, maybe as a friend or maybe more.
But as months go by and your bond grows, your insticts are not 100% agreeing with your vision and very soon, the real person emerges, but this time these imperfections are more that that, they are an innocent and naive weapon, in the fight to control the situation and you. They are an intentional stab in the back, because you did not do what they wanted you to do. Because you weren’t there, they quickly replaced you with someone else. While you were expected to wait for them when they demanded it and ‘told’ you. And worse of all, they turned to one of your own friends, whom you know is a good person and known for years. And you are left with a feeling of betrayal, hurt and pain, all the whilst knowing that your friend although not interested in the same way, is also being used and they do not reply to you.
You toughen up and come to your senses, you feel pity for their insecurities, hurt by the redicule of your own hurt – as if it is some sort of joke, that lies seemed to have come flooding out like a volcano with multiple colours of lava flowing into the other. And you take back your own power, control and sense of calm in your life, by blocking them out from yours, as much as possible.
You feel a sense of peace, because for once in your life, you love yourself enough, to set yourself free. Free from the pain, the anguish and hurt, and not waste your life giving this person chances, but know that you can find someone else who will care about you and respect you no end. Even if they have not entered your life yet, you are confident and self-assured that they will do!
Some friends come and go – so do some loves. But the one thing I want you to remember, is to never leave your own soul. Never leave the true you. Never let yourself cry or be in pain longer than you need to be, to rid yourself from it naturally. Be there for yourself no matter what. To take the role of the father, the mother, and the child within you, when each situation calls for it. But most of all, to be the bestest ever friend to yourself, to love yourself implicitly, and to not settle for anything less than than what is good and right for you. Remember these 3 simple words to say to yourself – I LOVE YOU!
Always stay positive and be you.
Love Sandra xx
Beauty be You!
Beauty be Me!
Beauty is all around Us!
For the World to See!
But do you see IT?
In the Small things?
In the Big things?
In ALL things?
Do you recognise the beauty of Friendship?
Of Harmony or Strife?
Of Darkness or Light?
Do you see the beauty in Yourself?
In Sickness and in Health?
In Poorness and in Wealth?
Do you see the beauty in the Ordinary?
And the Extraordinary?
Beauty is You!
And beauty is Me!
That much beauty, is what I see.
From your nose, to your toes,
From your Mind, to your Spirit,
I love every Minute,
Of being with YOU xx
Stop Stagnating In Fear! Inspirational: Motivational: Poem: By Sandra Bellamy.
How To Stop Stagnating In Fear. A Poem With A Quirky Twist.
Many people allow fear to take over their soul. Instead of focusing on the fear right now, move the fear forward, to another time and place and enjoy being in the now, realising that there is no major catastrophe right now. Shut the fear and worry out of the door and learn to develop a positive frame of mind and better habits.
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Confessions of an asexual businesswoman cougar. Quirky Books writer Sandra Bellamy confesses all to the Mirror UK National Press with desires of a teenage romance. Special Edition Video. Read the article here and share it http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/confessions-cougar-repulsed-sex-dreams-9456045
Today I am celebrating my 6 years blogging anniversary on my other blog – Quirky Books . If you have never visited it before – please check it out!! Quirky Books is where my writing and blogging journey began and I originally set it up to help me practice my craft of writing, find my writer’s voice, and to help other writer’s to write better. This year, I have gone back to those roots.
I want you to be one of the first to know, that coming soon, I am changing my www.quirkyacademy.com site into an online education training centre for Entrepreneurs, Start-ups and Creatives. So if you fall into any of these categories of interests then expect courses to come, to give you the skills require in all aspects of these, taking your carer to a whole new level.
Stay positive to help beat redundancy blues.