People like to think that other people are what makes up their life, their decisions and their fate – but it’s not, you are totally responsible for your own life, not God, not your parents, not your spouse and not your family – just you and it’s your choice how you lead your life! So what does that mean for you in 2018? It means your success it up to you. Just like mine is up to me, and I am going to do everything in my power to ensure I become successful in all aspects of my life. I will work hard, smart, and with care and focus. There are no guarantees of success in life, but trying is a success in and of itself, as most people won’t even give it a go or bother, but I intend to give it my best shot and turn my life around. What goals, ambitions and dreams, have you set yourself for 2018 and how do you plan to achieve them?
This video is a live stream I did on my other channel – my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel about asexuality (but this particular video talks about having a choice in your life which is very relevant to this post). Asexuality is a sexual orientation that is the lack of sexual attraction, for me, I am a heteroromantic asexual – meaning I am attracted to guys romantically, but I never get the urge to have sex with them and I am cool with that. And in case you were wondering, yes I have had sex before and my ex was good at it, but no, I would rather never have again since I discovered my sexual orientation and know there are others like me. In fact, I hold in person asexual meet-ups in my city, which is awesome.
Happy New Year and stay positive!
“Self-love is when you can say this to yourself – You just made my day!” Self-love Quote By Sandra Bellamy.
The best person to make you the happiest person alive, is yourself! If every day you can wake up and say to yourself at the end of it, you made my day, you will know you acted with self-love, compassion and care for you!! And this is the best form of love on the planet!! For when you love truly love yourself, is when you will have an abundance of love to last a lifetime and more!!
I believe you have the power to change your life, those of others, and the world around you!!!
I recently wrote a quote on Facebook:
“You don’t need to put a chip in your brain to have super powers, all of the super powers are already within you, they just need unlocking” – Quote by Sandra Bellamy
A lot of people don’t realise that all of the will power, intuition, determination and resources to succeed are already within you. You have to have a can-do, nothing will stop you attitude. When everyone else is saying, ‘can’t’, you need to ask ‘how?’ and start to work it out. That is why the journey is more important than the destination, because of all the life lessons, skills and experience you pick up along the way, on the road to your dreams!!
If you could change the world, what would you do??