Redundancy Inspiration

7 Year Freedom From Abuse Anniversary

Today, marks the 7 Year Anniversary of me being free from abuse, and to celebrate I went on a self-date to the cinema and saw Disney’s The Nutcracker and the Four Realms. Which was an amazing family film. It is very Christmassy, with magic, wonder, beautiful costumes and sets, and some nicely simple special effects that were great for the film. Here is the trailer:

My ex is not something I have mentioned much on this blog, but I wanted to post about my 7 year freedom from abuse anniversary, across all 3 of my blogs, including this one, to inspire others that they can break free from not only the abuser, but from that life you have become emotionally attached to, even though you KNOW it’s bad for you. You are hooked on the trance that it puts you in at the time, even when you KNOW you need to leave, but you feel you cannot get out of it. Partly because you are scared that you will find no one better and that no one will love you like they did, because that is what they will have you believe, and with a lack of self-esteem and self-love, it is hard not to cling on for dear life, even though that life is far from dear.

My ex was verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive, and also physically threatening. Fortunately, he was not sexually abusive, and was good to me in that way.

In this video from my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel, that was live streamed, you can hear what I had to say about my past experience and how happy I am now to be free of that abuse, and living as a single, happy person.

Until next time, stay ace

Sandra xx