Redundancy Inspiration

Author Sandra Bellamy Asexuality Interview On Freestyle Your Life Podcast

Freestyle Your Life Podcast Interview

I am so happy to have been interviewed on the Freestyle Your Life (FLY) Podcast about my personal asexual journey and about asexuality. In case you didn’t already know, in March/April 2014 I discovered I am a heteroromantic asexual. I am attracted to guys romantically not sexually. I don’t get the need, urge, or want, for partnered sexual intercourse. I love kissing especially and cuddling, but not sex. Yes, I had sex in the past because I thought I had to as part of a ‘normal’ relationship, as we are all conditioned to believe since birth. Yes, I did say conditioned, but sex is not for everyone. Love without sex, does exist. One of my asexual friends is getting married to his asexual partner next month and I couldn’t be more happy for them.

If you didn’t already know, I am the Author of this beautifully insightful book about Asexuality, called Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity. So if you want to read more about my personal asexual story you can read about it in my book here https://amzn.to/2YEGD2y Or here if you live in the USA https://amzn.to/30nTarT Or worldwide at https://www.sellfy.com/quirkybooks.net or you can order the paperback version from all good book shops around the globe under Quirky Books – yes, that’s my own publishing imprint.

Asexual Perspectives print book
Author Sandra Bellamy With Her Asexual Perspectives Paperback Book

I am also the founder of www.asexualise.com and www.asexualiseacademy.com and I design and sell merchandise for asexuals on Amazon and Redbubble I also live stream daily on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel.

My podcast interview with Freestyle Your Life, goes live on Tuesday 9th July 2019 on ITunes, Stitcher and Spotify. It will be available to listen to from midnight on 8th of July, so you can listen to it on the 9th, no matter what country you are in. I had a lot of synergy with this presenter as she is all about being your true authentic self, no matter what, and has a hugely powerful personal story of overcoming adversity herself.

These are the links where my episode, (episode 26), will be live to listen to from the 9th of July 2019!

This is the exact link to my specific episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep026-how-to-embrace-your-quirky-asexuality-sandra/id1458343184?i=1000443926237

https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/freestyleyourlife-podcast

You can find my episode on Spotify at number 26!

https://open.spotify.com/show/7pABZtAGxl4XqjPovRzUQg

https://freestyle-your-life.com/podcast/

I also blog on www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com for over 8 years and you will currently see this almost identical post there. On that blog is where I started my Author journey and it took me 7 years to get the Quirky Books name as my very own registered publishing imprint in the UK, so you can buy this book globally as well as find it in 6 UK libraries. I want to inspire you to never give-up on your dreams and to be your true, authentic self, always.

I hope you enjoy listening to my interview.

As always, stay positive.

Sandra xx

 

Advertisements
Redundancy Inspiration

Make Your Social Sizzle! Get this NO BULLSHIT e-book about #copywriting for Social Media for FREE! Act Now! Before they start charging for this!

If you WANT TO GET SHED LOADS MORE EYEBALLS ON YOUR BLOG POSTS, AND MAKE MONEY ONLINE WHILST YOU SLEEP, get this NO BULLSHIT e-book about #copywriting for Social Media for FREE!

SocialBee, Copywriting e-book – get it now while it’s free!

THIS FREE COPYWRITING book from the experts at SocialBee, will get your SOCIAL JUICES PUMPING and YOUR CLICK THROUGH RATES RAGING AND ON FIRE! This how-to guide will show you EXACTLY what you need to do to ATTRACT the ATTENTION of your WINNING CLIENTS and it’s likely to become an Amazon bestseller in the not to distant future! So get it now for FREE and DOWNLOAD INSTANTLY! Don’t Miss Out! Click the link below and grab it now!

https://socialbee.grsm.io/copywriting2220

You may be wondering how I manage to get so many followers and eye-balls on this blog and my blog at www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com! SocialBee is my secret weapon! It’s a powerhouse that pumps out all your social media posts, blog posts, and YouTube videos on evergreen autopilot. Now I have a steady stream of eyeballs on my blog posts with daily visitors. I only started to using this valuable tool part way through last year (2018) and I have to say it’s turned my business life upside down for the better, forever. I was struggling to get daily visitors to my sites and to post daily individual social media posts to my 14 pages Facebook, 13 Twitter accounts, and to LinkedIn and to be quite frank, it was energy draining, time-consuming, and all posting and not doing much producing new stuff that mattered!  Now I use SocialBee to automate all my blog posts, social media posts, and YouTube videos on evergreen! I learnt in my writing and entrepreneurial journey, that the way people at the top make a lot of money online is they have a product or service to sell, with a bunch of others, or they sell other people’s and earn something called an affiliate commission from it, and they automate as much of the process as possible so they make money while they sleep! Like the Amazon affiliate cheque you saw in a previous post. Yes, It has taken me a long time to get that, but thanks to SocialBee I got it quicker, as I am able to posts my affiliate links in social media posts, on evergreen, which means they automatically post over and over again, without me individually posting them like I did before unless I want to!

This was the state of my planner last year, before I got SocialBee to automate my social media posting for me. You can see I was having to schedule and post stuff manually, that would often only be posted once, and now I don’t need to, unless I want to! I bought a tool before SocialBee, but still had to schedule everything manually – no evergreen feature, and no posting to groups! It drove nuts! I was no further forward than scheduling a blog post on WordPress!

I spent months and months looking for a Social Media Autoposting tool that would post to all my Facebook pages, my 5 Facebook groups – as those were particularly hard to keep engaged on a daily basis without being in them constantly, and to post to all my Twitter pages and LinkedIn. I felt so relieved to find SocialBee and at a fraction of the cost that some other Autoposting tools cost, many of which don’t post to Facebook groups! Groups are particularly important in creating an engaged amount of people who will get to know you, like you, and trust you, and a proportion of those will want to buy from you! But you have to be seen in them daily, to nourish your members with valuable content.

This is one video in a playlist of how to use SocialBee, that I created on my newer Quirky Academy channel for entrepreneurs, start-ups and creatives, which gives you a behind-the-scenes look on how I use this essential tool! Watch it and subscribe for more help with online social media marketing!

If you want to try SocialBee for yourself you can get a free trial here https://socialbee.grsm.io/SandraBellamy and yes, I am an affiliate for them, because I use them and believe in them, which means that if after your free trial you do decide you want to continue to use it, I may received a small commission for referring them to you. It does not cost you any more money to get their service this way, it just means they are happy to pay me a bit of money for bringing a new customer their way. Very similar to those sales assistants who work in a shop and earn commission if the customer buys something, (I used to be one of those), just in this case it’s a real life virtual service, as opposed to a bricks and mortar shop you just walk into and buy! Most of the products and services we buy online now, so this is how the real world and the virtual world combine to become the real ‘one’ world!

Don’t forget to grab your FREE COPYWRITING book from the experts at SocialBee, by clicking here https://socialbee.grsm.io/copywriting2220

Until next time, stay quirky you, keep going for your dreams, and write soon

Sandra xx

P.S. If you need still need help setting up SocialBee after you have watched all of the videos on my channel, it is a service I offer, as does SocialBee, I am also offering complete Social Media management as a premium service to a few select clients. If you are interested in either of these, you can visit my https://quirkyacademy.com site and hit me up in the chat bubble in the bottom right corner to ask for more details.

Redundancy

LIFE. BUSINESS. JUST GOT EASIER. BOOK REVIEW BY SANDRA BELAMY

41PwOPz1QTL._SX317_BO1,204,203,200_
When you are made redundant, rather than going back into employment, you may want to try your hand at being self-employed. But running your own business can be so tough! In order to assess your life as a self-employed person, or avoid some of the pitfalls, I would recommend getting this book. Here is my review that I left on Amazon.
on 20 March 2017
I won this book directly from Brad at The Business Show a few years ago, and just got around to reading it, when I needed to read it the most, as I have been struggling of late in both life and business – directly related! Being quirky, I am a huge fan of Brad and his quirky business methods. I love the fact it is written in his conversational, non-nonsense style and that he is completely himself. In this book, Brad asks you to ask yourself all of the hard questions that you often avoid acting upon, because of fear. I really liked the fact that there is exercises throughout the book to allow you to asses what you learnt about your own life and business from Brad’s own life and business experiences and lessons. He makes you think and find soul securing answers and face them head on. This is a great book to help you come unstuck and move forward with your own unique mission. Thanks Brad, for keeping it real and for another awesome book that speaks Braddism at its best!
To buy Brad’s book click here http://amzn.to/2n3yW3V
Redundancy

Asexual Perspectives: What an Author’s life is really like! Behind the scenes part two!

So you may have read about my Asexual Perspectives book being published, but just what is Asexuality and what does it mean to be asexual? Watch this video to find out more and read my book description below. Asexual Perspectives is currently available to read for free on Amazon for ‘Kindle Unlimited’ readers, so what have you got to lose by finding out more? 

Shop on Amazon.com http://amzn.to/2kyL22x or Amazon.co.uk  http://amzn.to/2k9asY1


ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES, LOVE, LIFE and SEX, ACElebration of ASEXUAL DIVERSITY! Book!
ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES, LOVE, LIFE and SEX, ACElebration of ASEXUAL DIVERSITY!What is Asexuality and what is the Asexual Spectrum

In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?

Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.

Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!

If you identify as asexual do you –

Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Feel alone?
Misunderstood?
Misplaced?
Broken?
Left out?
Not recognised?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?

Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.

In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!

In this book you will:

•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.

•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.

•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!

•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.

•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.

•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.

•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.

•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.

•Uncover the positives about being asexual.

•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.

I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.

If you have resonated with any of these points and you want to know more, please invest in this book and buy now on Amazon.com http://amzn.to/2kyL22x or Amazon.co.uk  http://amzn.to/2k9asY1

Heteroromantic Author Sandra Bellamy, is the founder of www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.

Redundancy

What is the hardest part of writing a book? BEHIND THE SCENES PART ONE

What is the hardest part of writing a book? BEHIND THE SCENES PART ONE. What is the hardest part of writing a book?

Redundancy is one of the best times to write that book. But now hard can the be??

Special Edition Video Series. In this video series I give you a behind the scenes look at what it is really like to be a writer and author. Part Two shows more of the making of the book and my daily routine.

I have been working tons of hours on my Asexual Perspectives book since New Year’s Day!! (Home, day job, book, home, day joy, book!)

I have finally uploaded my Asexual Perspectives book and waiting for Kindle to approve it and then I will be a self-published Author x 3 – but this book will be in print also asap!!

Stay positive and look out for part two soon!!

Love xx Sandra

author, Redundancy

BLACK FRIDAY DEALS FOR WRITERS!

Black Friday Quirky Books T Shirt Sale
Black Friday Quirky Books T Shirt Sale

Well I am amazingly happy to announce that I have just started my first online clothing range for writers on Amazon.com – yes, under the brand name of Quirky Books – first two T Shirts went live in the early hours of this morning and are at a bargain price especially for the Black Friday promotion. So don’t forget to grab yourself a bargain. – If you live in the UK, you cannot buy these yet – but I will also have my T Shirts on Redbubble in the near future! Let me know what you think and I will hurry up and get them on there if you love them so much!

Check out these new designs and let me know what you think!! http://amzn.to/2fZr02d

I already have a Quirky T Shirt brand in case you did not know and these are also reduced for the Black Friday promotion with 7 new designs added this morning, like this Don’t Criticize Me Until You’re Perfect T Shirt – check them out here http://amzn.to/2goHrpv  

P>S> Stay Quirky xx And write soon – on a T Shirt if you need to!! Now, I bet you did not think of designing T Shirts as writing on a cloth canvas – did you?? But it is!! Enjoy!!