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The Power Of Decisions To Make You Invincible!

When you have been through a lot in your life, it is easy to doubt yourself, to feel weak and helpless. Over time, you can learn to trust yourself, to trust your gut instincts, and you can learn to be invincible. The whole process requires baby steps. Make a decision, stick to it, reflect on how it worked out, then make another decision, then another and another!

Believe it or not, I only realised recently the true power of decision making in creating the invincible version of myself! And you can use it too, to make yourself more invincible! If you have been in bad or unhealthy relationships where your opinion was belittled, or you were made to feel small and under threat if you had a decision to make and you may make the wrong one if you go with what you think, then it makes decision making extremely difficult. I have been in those situations. One major influence in my life use to say things like, “I’m just here to pick up the pieces”, “If you say so, do whatever, because I know you will anyway”, often using a sarcastic tone of voice – implying that every decision I make is going to be the wrong one, making me feel invalid, and that making any decision for myself is in some way is going against them and likely going to fail because they know it will. This puts you in a super scary position, because it makes you feel like you are not supported and in a constant state of threat. It undermines your confidence and instigates anxiety and uncertainty, and to put this right after so many years is tough, but I know I need to keep pushing through my fears if I want to be truly invincible and to move forward with my life! Right now I am working on this, it’s a work in progress. I am trusting my instincts far more, acting more on my gut feelings and intuition, and making more decisions without trying to second guess myself all the time.

So know that you can change your life, it takes a lot of will power, determination, and it is a long journey – but will be worth it. You have to learn to let go of being perfect and accept that either mistakes can be made, or you will learn a ton of life lessons, either way, you will keep getting stronger and everything will work out and be okay and in that way – you will become invincible!

Stay positive, Sandra xx

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Be Happy, Be Bright, Be You!

In a world that is tying to make you the same as everyone else, what you must always do, is be bright, be happy, and be you! Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle and try to make you into their ideal person and make you something that you are not! You’re lovely just as you are and never forget it! Don’t lower your standards for yourself in order to meet theirs, and don’t change for anyone but yourself, otherwise the change won’t stick and you will lose yourself in the process.

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Sandra Bellamy Among Thought Leaders Jack Canfield and Robin Sharma! But How And Why?

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I am so happy to share the same page as world thought leaders Jack Canfield and Robin Sharma in The Book Of Why And How by Corey Poirier, giving my own quote to inspire you live your purpose! It feels amazing to be recognised as a thought-leader! I have always been leader rather than a follower, and finally I am not only recognised as a leader of my own life, but of a thought leader with the greats of this world!

From Jack Canfield’s website:

“Jack Canfield is an award-winning speaker and an internationally recognized leader in personal development and peak performance strategies. For over 40 years, he has been teaching entrepreneurs, educators, corporate leaders, and people from all walks of life how to create the life they desire. As the beloved originator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul® series, he’s taught millions of individuals his modernized formulas for success, and now certifies trainers to teach his content and methodology all over the world. Jack is the author and co-author of more than 150 books (66 are bestsellers) with more than 100 million copies in print in 47 languages around the world. His bestselling book, The Success Principles: How to Get From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be has been hailed as the new self-improvement classic, now containing 67 of the most powerful secrets to success known to mankind. In 2014, SUCCESS magazine named him “One of the Most Influential Leaders in Personal Growth and Achievement.””

From Robin Sharma’s website:

“Robin Sharma is one of the world’s premier speakers on Leadership and Personal Mastery. Sharma’s books such as The Leader Who Had No Title have topped bestseller lists internationally and his social media posts reach over six hundred million people a year, making him a true global phenomenon for helping people do brilliant work, thrive amid change and realize their highest leadership capacities within the organization so that personal responsibility, productivity, ingenuity and mastery soars. Sharma has been ranked as one of the Top 5 Leadership Experts in the World in an independent survey of over 22,000 businesspeople.”

Keep believing in your goals, ambitions and dreams. Keeping being a leader, not a follower, and shape your own destiny!

 

Stay positive.

Lots of love

Sandra xx

 

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The Best Kind Of Love – Is Self-Love! Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day!

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These are just 5 benefits of single life and being single, I can think of many more, can you?

There is nothing better than to love oneself, because we are the only one who will be with ourself, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, and if we do not have self- love, our life is going to be miserable and we are going to be a bit stuck!

All we have to do to love ourself, is to treat ourself, as we would do if we were in an ideal relationship with us. It’s that simple, or complicated, depending on which way you look at it! This means, just like in an ideal partnership, you should always:

  • Treat yourself with kindness.
  • Treat yourself with self-respect.
  • Give yourself a hug.
  • Love yourself regardless, because you just can’t help it!
  • Value your worth and the time you spend in your own company.
  • Be your best friend.
  • Help yourself in difficult times.
  • Reassure yourself that everything will be okay.
  • Know that you will get through the tough times, and encourage yourself to go for your goals, ambitions and dreams.

Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day! Today I am out on a self-date to celebrate being single on #ICBSDAY! or #ICBSD, (International Celebrate Being Single Day – Feb 14th!). Today I am going to the cinema and for a meal! And I will be even more loved up with myself than usual!

International Celebrate Being Single Day is a day I founded On February 14th, in 2015, so that no single person has to feel alone ever again on Valentine’s Day, instead, they can celebrate it as they special day! So how are you celebrating today?

Whatever you are up to, happy Valentine’s Day and International Celebrate Being Single Day, may it fill you with joy, happiness, and a lot of self-love! With much love from me, Sandra xxxx

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Be Grateful for life, for all that you are and all that you will become!

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Be grateful for life, for all that you are and all that you will become – even if you don’t know what will happen in the future. Presence is a gift! The unknown is just that, but now, is known. As long as you are breathing, you have something to be grateful for.

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New Year, New Month – New You!

stencil.blog-post-image-7There is never a time when you can’t make a fresh start! February is a new month, 2018 is a new year and you can decide to be a new you! You have the power to change; you just decide and you just do it!