When you don’t fit into a box and are somewhat different to the thought leaders of today, how do you go about finding your own peace and happiness?
I am predominantly an extrovert and naturally a hyper person. I love noise, getting out and about, I love music, lights, camera, action. I love talking and doing stuff. But what happens when it would seem that most people I know, are introverts? Including thought leaders? If I follow their way to peace and happiness, do you think it will lead to my own? Sure there may be, and indeed is, stuff that I can learn, use, and incorporate into my own life and businesses, but their end game of peace and happiness, may not be mine.
I am not a yoga or meditative type of person, I get bored very easily and I appreciate the energy and vibrancy that noise gives to my state. It makes me feel elated, great and alive! Most introverts would not feel at peace with noise, lights, camera, and action, but as an extrovert I do.
Last week I was in Disneyland Paris for my 21st Mindset Birthday Celebration. I had the best time of my life, as it was completely at one with my soul. The noise from the beautiful Disney music constantly playing in the background; the constant availability of rides and going on them throughout each day; the awesomeness of being around others, while contemplating my own thoughts, the vibrancy, the magic and wonder – and the energy! I was at total peace and happiness with my soul. I could have lived there. This is not what the majority seems to think, but the majority, isn’t who I am. So I think it is best to always create your own recipe for success and happiness, because everyone is different. Just remember, most therapists, experts, counsellors, doctors, marketeers etc, are trained by others that have devised a set of rules, procedures and practises. But if the original source in the chain, is not coming from the same angle and/or mindset as you, and you have different likes, needs, wants and beliefs, their ideology of what peace and happiness is, may not be your ideal. So don’t be afraid to follow your own path in life, and don’t feel bad about it. Love yourself and your own happiness implicitly.